by Hope
I wished to settle the nice debate that has been raging in my head for the final, nearly 12 months, since my devastating job loss. I’ve no plans to promote my house. Holding on to this house is what I wish to do.
You all have given me some implausible recommendation as I struggled with this thought the final a number of months as issues turned so onerous financially.
Transient Recap
I at present stay in and personal a 1100 sq. foot, brick house in a tiny little city in Northeast Georgia on the base of the Smokey Mountains. I really like tiny city residing. And I’ve poured tons of blood, sweat, and tears into transforming this house to make it good for me (and my canines.) That is the primary house I ever purchased fully by myself.

My house (pics 2022)
Once I misplaced a very nice and cherished company job a 12 months and a half in the past, I hoped to leap proper into an identical function. To this point, I’ve not even come near discovering a brand new full time job regardless of 100s of purposes. However I’ve been blessed with a number of half time jobs and a few venture work. However issues have gotten actually, actually tight and scary at occasions.
I’m simply now getting again on my ft after about 4 months of virtually dropping all the things. And promoting my house and shifting to a bigger market turned a real debate.
Determination Made
However I’ve determined to now not entertain the considered promoting the home. There are many causes however listed below are the highlights that tipped the size.
- Probabilities of me qualifying for an additional house buy are slim to none within the close by (ie a number of years) future as a consequence of my debt load and the difficulty I’m having discovering a full time job.
- That is the proper retirement/develop outdated in home for me and my life-style. So even when I transfer away for work at some juncture briefly, having this house to return again to in my outdated age appears good. It’s one story, has nice bones, and after nearly 7 years now I do know all of the quirks and desires which could be very comforting for me. (And the rental market right here is HOT so I’d don’t have any downside renting it out ought to I transfer away for some time.)
- The price of residing is so low. I’ve identified for a very long time, like many years now, that I by no means wish to be home poor. I don’t suppose I may discover a home for this price on this situation almost anyplace. (I paid $90,000 for this house 2 1/2 12 months in the past.) As soon as I get out of my shopper debt, I may afford life right here comparatively simply.
- I wasn’t in a position to give my children housing stability rising up as a consequence of a lot of circumstances. However holding on to this home which is the longest any of us (together with me) has lived anyplace, provides us all some type of roots. One thing I by no means had and I desperately wished for my children. It might not be a lot, however which means one thing to me. And it provides them someplace to return house to, ought to they ever want too.
Content material
Having this determination made forward of the brand new 12 months provides me an immense sense of peace and contentment. One much less factor to distract me as I work my approach again and ahead to a brand new life.
Additionally, excellent news, that I’ll share extra of within the new 12 months, as of at the moment, my mortgage is paid by February 1 (so I’m one month forward now) and I’ve paid over 1/2 of the cost due then! Woot, woot!

Hope is a digital advertising supervisor and foster/adoptive single mother to 5 children. She has run her personal consulting firm for over 15 years and took a leap of religion returning to the company world in 2021 to a job and group she loves! Hope started sharing her journey with the BAD group within the Spring of 2015 and seems like she has lastly mastered the steadiness between household first and clever monetary selections.